He believes, “More ‘interesting souls' are on Tinder because people who know how to access apps like Tinder in China are usually more open-minded or have lived overseas before,” but admits that it's a generalization between him and his friends.
While explicit messages, catfishing and disastrous dates are part and parcel for many, Lauren from Xiamen highlights why persistence pays off.
After just over a year on Tantan, she found ‘the one.' “I matched with the love of my life, and we are due to get married next year,” she tells us, adding that he moved across the country to be with her. But Lauren admits, “To find that good pingguo (apple), you've got to go through a few rotten ones first.”
She tells us that Chinese lesbians tend to be shy on dating apps and are less interested in “hooking up
Stacee from Shenzhen ended up in a long-term relationship with someone she used to casually respond to at first. “He's the best thing to happen to me. He truly loves me for me.”
As we've learned over several discussions with dating app users, not all apps are made equal. Barbara from Fuzhou tells us that while Jimu is common among younger, diverse crowds, they're less likely to be taken seriously. With that said, “You can definitely find the right one too if it is destiny,” says Barbara.
In her personal experience as a lesbian in China, she notes that Jimu users generally use code words to signal their sexual orientation. ”
Soul, on the other hand, offers a promising user interface with multiple functions to meet the user's needs, according to Sylvia from Guangzhou.
“You can match by sound. If you like the other person's voice, you might end up liking the other person, while if you don't like their voice, you can pass.